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SerendipityPrayer

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Serendipity PrayerEnglish narration

THE EPONYMOUSLY PUNNED-UPON PRAYER

The (Serenity) Prayer

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.

THE EVIDENCE SURVIVES

A Special Night

These are slightly cartoonified versions of real photos from my iPhone—of the apartment and the man this poem is about.

ON THE POEM

“Losing Loving Loving”

The first five poems of Section II are about the same man. This poem describes the night when we truly connected and recounts some very specific things he actually said. By “losing loving loving,” he meant that, after many exhausting and disillusioning years, he still had the capacity to love, but he no longer loved to love.

A HIDDEN ETYMOLOGY

“To have passion also means to suffer.”

The poem’s claim is more literal than it may seem: passion and suffering share an old history.

A radiant person with arms outstretched in enthusiasm in an illustrated rose garden.
patito endure, sufferpassiosufferingpassionintense devotion

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English passion came through Old French from Late Latin passio, “suffering” or “enduring,” which in turn comes from pati, “to endure” or “to suffer.”

Its earliest English sense referred specifically to Christ’s suffering and death: the Passion of Christ. The modern sense of intense emotion, desire, or devotion came later. The word therefore holds both ideas at once: what moves us deeply, and what we are willing — or compelled — to endure for it.

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ETYMOLOGY

Serendipity

The word “serendipity” comes from a story about three princes from Serendip, an old name for what is now Sri Lanka.

An imagined illustration of Serendip, clues along a desert journey, and finally a sealed letter with a quill.
FROM AN ISLAND TO A WORD

THE PLACE

Serendip

Serendip—also written Serendib or Sarandib—was a Persian and Arabic name for the island now called Sri Lanka. In the Persian tale The Three Princes of Serendip, the king’s sons leave their homeland and travel through the world.

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